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Relationship with Parents
1) There is difference between our outlook. and opinions towards life. (age group, experiences )
2) Rather than finding the commanlities, we
are cutting down on communication.
I am staying with them due to corona
and not even doing job right now.
3) This cutting of communication is creating
gap which will widen if no steps taken as
it will manifest feeling in essence people
will do the things they want, not which
are required .
4) Who takes the responsibiliy of working
on this task
5) If I take, I will feel overwhelmed, Contrary
they are free and retired and claims they
don't have much to do
Am I wrong?
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You need to understand one thing that as much you will think about this you will get more involve in this and your thinking and fear will start to control your thoughts and life. So stop thinking on this it happens with many the only difference is that some people can control it and slowly it fades from their thoughts.in short its you who can deal with this but here question comes how? For this you can consult any professional that person can help you in this. You can contact me online also.
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Everybody has an opinion.And everyone is right from their perspective but there seems to be a gap in the communication.We need to talk about this in detail.
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if any point this bothers you then you can consult me here on practo.We can surely work on this.
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Hi there seems to be an issue of communication. I think if you could change the way you communicate things could go differently. Please remember we only have the power to change ourself not others not even our parents.
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If this is bothering you, you can consult me over Practo and we can work this out.
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Ms. Chellam Narendiran
Psychologist
10 yrs exp
Coimbatore
Hi,
Very true. The difference of thoughts and opinions are going to be there now and later too. Agree to disagree is one of the way to sort of the issues.
Probably, because of your unsettlement in job and being at home makes the things worst.
You need to primarily focus on getting a job and start moving in life. Talk to your parents on your issues or what you have as your point. Make some logical statement and put in the way they understand.
This would help you for the time being. Recommend to take professional assistance.
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Ms. Hema Sampath
Psychologist
18 yrs exp
Bangalore
It's not about who is wrong..
If you feel and wish, peace back in your life and some meaning back in your relationship with them, I suggest you to consult a psychological Counselor for a clarity and understanding...
For a detailed discussion and understanding you can reach me by using the link given below :-
https://prac.to/hema-sampath-psychologist-dir
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Mr. Nishok SA
Counselling Psychologist
5 yrs exp
Chennai
There is problem in expectation with your parents and your self..
You are 33 year s old.
Are you still dependent on them.??
Get a job soon..
Communication must be clear, what ever it is.. Yes or No..
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contact me for personal sessions to solve your problems.. good luck
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