Relationship Trouble with Parents

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Asked for Female, 28 Years

I am 28 years old in a relationship with my colleague from the last two years. When I approached my parents they rejected the boy without meeting him and said he doesnt belong to our standards. I asked them if we can reach a mutual ground and they initially said if he increases his salary , but now have backed out and formed an image of him and are emotionally blackmailing me to leave him. I am unable to understand such stringent and blocked behaviour. The boys parents approve of me

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Mr. P N Sathya Narayanan

Counselling Psychologist 33 yrs exp Bangalore

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Looks little complicated, are your parents concerned about caste or status or materialist approach!!!! Since you are 28 years old matured person, by now you must have the capabilities of taking decisions about your own life yet not hurting parents' feelings. Best to have an open discussion with parents; however you haven't mentioned about your colleague's background

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best to go for a professional help. if your parents can accompany half of your issue will be resolved.

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