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Propose a girl
My age is 28 years old and I am a student studying MCA , in my collage I love a girl and want to propose her , but every time I lose the chance to chance to propose her because I always confused what would be her answer, whether she also love me or not , or she have a boy friend, thinking that I always back off . I am really confused to propose her or not , but she is my best friend. Please help . Should I go ahead and tell her my feelings or just keep this feeling within my mind . Moreover I am not able to sleep at night, I hardly sleep four hours nowadays. Is there any link between my sleeping issue and my feelings ?
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Hi,
Confessing your feelings will always help you to know what are her feelings for you are. If you keep feelings within your self then thoughts will keep running your mind creating more confusion due to which you are unable to sleep.
Thoughts are involuntary in nature and it is difficult to control our thoughts.
Just go ahead and share your feelings with the girl you like.
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Express your feelings and after that if you are still unable to sleep. Do consult me with techniques it will help you to sleep.
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Ms. Chellam Narendiran
Psychologist
10 yrs exp
Coimbatore
Hi,
Asking questions to yourself and doubting whether she has a boy friend or not will not give you any solutions. It is better to ask and accept the reality. Assume the probable chances for saying YES and NO is 50:50. Once you know the answer you will feel better and know what to do next.
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Speak to her openly and wait for her to respond.
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Ms. Ritika Matta
Counselling Psychologist
4 yrs exp
Hyderabad
You can contact me for an online appointment and we can explore this narrative together
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Ms. Hema Sampath
Psychologist
18 yrs exp
Bangalore
The very reason for your confusion and the Anxiety related to it, you do not know what is her feeling about you..
In life, whenever we want an answer, we need to ask an appropriate question to recan answer.
Instead of being in the confusion, and in the fear of not ready to hear a NO from her, it is rather better to get to know her feelings and be willingly ready to move on..
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