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Problem with decision making
I am confused about marrying my out of cast, dark skinned, not good family background boyfriend who is also very loving, loyal, simple, financially stable, self made, focused and tall. I always wanted to have an arrange marriage where everything goes well. So weather should I choose a person whom I love so much or think practically and try to find someone else where I can get everything I want as well as love in an arranged marriage setup.
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It’s okay to feel confused at times. However you must not forget that there are people out there who are ready to listen to you and explore your problem and find out what’s best for you
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Seek professional counselling
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Meanwhile focus on your self care
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Hi. Marriage is a wider thing where you need to reveal affection for family members along your husband
Wait for few more years
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"You have a right to perform your prescribed duties, but you are not entitled to the fruits of your actions.”"Desires come and go, but you should remain a dispassionate witness, simply watching and enjoying the show. Desires should not bother a person."
"There is nothing lost or wasted in this life.”
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When you think about marriage it means living with someone for the rest of your life. You are confused about whether you should marry your boyfriend. You mentioned the good qualities he has such as being very loving, self made, financially stable and loyal. I understand marriage is a big decision and you don’t want to have regrets later. It is your choice whether you want an arranged marriage or love marriage. The important aspect about marriage is compatibility and you should also think about your happiness.
I understand you are confused about what to do. Talking to a psychologist will help you.
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You can book an appointment with me for counseling session
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Hey
Glad u reached out. I can understand that your feeling very confused in this situation where you have a love interest who fits the bill in most things important to have a happy life on one hand but the idea of wanting more in that partner ( colour of his skin/ good family background ) makes you wonder if there is something better out there that u could have and what if u regret this later !?
It’s natural to feel this way girl. And only by talking abt this more openly and sharing all your concerns and fears in a safe space can help u make a better more informed choice for urself.
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Feel free to connect over a online session.
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Hi. I understand your concerns and they are valid. However, any relationship isn’t perfect because humans aren’t perfect. We will remain indecisive if we look for perfection in everything. Your perspective can be changed through counselling
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Ms. Hema Sampath
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It is better to seek a professional support to get a clarity and understanding about yourself and about your future life..
Connect with a therapist personally either online or Offline...
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