Premature ejaculation. Me. help me here.

Hi. Premature ejaculation is a difficult condition to cope with. It happens due to anxiety relating to performance during sex and other reasons like worries about doing it perfectly for the first time, trying to meet expectations of yourself or partner, stress in life due to any reason, not doing sex in a comfortable and private place, concerns of satisfying the partner, comparison with previous sexual performances etc. You need to assess your mental state as to why this is happening with you. You have provided good information, but some more of it is required to make proper analysis and management of the problem. Like - 1) was it your first time when this problem started in last 2 weeks, 2) does your girlfriend have higher sexual needs than you, 3) have you previously done any sexual act with this girl like oral sex, kissing, playing with her breasts etc., 4) if you had sex previously with some other girl, how was it in terms of ejaculation, 5) did you try to avoid having sex with this girlfriend in the last 2-3 weeks, 6) how does your girlfriend react to your premature ejaculation. These are just few questions out of many that need to be answered to assess your condition properly. Its better you visit a Clinical Psychologist to get proper psychological counseling/therapy. Your problem has psychological reasons like the ones I discussed above. There are generally anxieties associated with our sexual performances. Sex is also like any other performance related act. So anxiety is natural. And sex happens in stages starting from arousal, excitement, intercourse to ejaculation (climax). Anxiety can effect any of these stages and this may lead to problems and distress/worries. So professional guidance can help you in this.

Visit a clinical psychologist

This is just due to anxiety, nothing more. Don't make presumptions or don't believe in myths associated with premature ejaculation regarding masculinity or else.