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I'm seeing someone .idk if he doesn't want to talk or he is upset with me .from the past few days I was the one who contacted him and he Even ignored my msg and after 2 days I texted him to give me a closure and I asked directly if he is upset or he doesn't want to talk to me to which he replied this is not the case and then he again ignored my msg and he Even comes online and he doesn't msg me so what should I think about it ? I'm not contacting him now so please someone answers me what is going on with him he makes me so confused .should I move on from him ?
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For how long have you been seeing him? You are upset about him ignoring your message. You feel he is quiet and he is not expressing himself too much about whether he wants to stay in the relationship or not. You feel he is ignoring you. Do you feel that he could be stressed or anxious about something? Before ignoring your messages did he mention anything about being upset? There is a possibility that he might be going through something. About whether you should move on or not you can think of giving it time. He probably needs his own space. If you are confused about what to do consult a psychologist and explain about your relationship with him in detail.
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Hi,
I understand your confused with your partner’s behaviour of not responding to your messages clearly especially without an explanation .
No matter what the reason is your sense of worth should not depend on him .
It could be he needs some space to collect his thoughts and deal with his own emotions. Give him time and work on yourself in the meantime.
Distract yourself Find things to do in order to keep yourself from obsessing over him .
Consult a Psychologist to help you manage your feelings and strengthen you emotionally. through this .
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Hi, Silent treatment can cause stress to people, because of uncertainty.You can force others to talk or you can't predict what is going on in others mind.I think it is good to wait for a while and give him time..You can make a decision after that.If you are staying near him instead of texting you can have a talk with him about this relationship.Emotional bullying is not a good sign of a good relationship.Decide yourself.Best of luck to you
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Ms. Smriti
Counselling Psychologist
18 yrs exp
Bangalore
Hi..silent treatment is hurtful.never marry a person who doesn't respect you.
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Ms. Roopali Das
Psychologist
8 yrs exp
Bangalore
Hello, Please understand that ghosting has become one of the commonly experienced phenomenon in relationships now-a-days. It usually comes from the partners who have either difficulty in managing their own emotions and relationships or have a problematic attachment pattern. It would be best for you to maintain some distance from your end and allow yourself the time to heal and work on your boundaries. As for your partner, you cannot help someone who doesn't ask for help. You can seek counselling to help you improve your emotional state.
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Mr. Gunjan Maithil
Psychologist
13 yrs exp
Bangalore
Hi.. Don't try to contact him any further as it is going to make him more distant. He is either not into you or trying a typical tactics of ignoring someone to make them more interested in oneself. Leave this for some time and get your self-esteem back before expecting anything from anyone. Nothing is worth loosing one's own self. You can seek counselling for your concerns.
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Interpersonal Relationship Counselling is required.
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