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Idk has he lost interest ?
Idk if I'm being ghosted .
It was like he texted me at night and I wasn't able to reply him because I wasn't online and then the very next day I msgd him and good morning and he did saw the msg but didn't replied and next day he didn't came online so I deleted texts for everyone and then after 3 days I texted him and he was replying very late he seemed busy and I asked him if he doesn't talk to me and he said no and then I asked him then what's the issue to which he didn't replied and he didn't contacted me again and I Even contacted him it's been 10 days since we last talked to each other .so what should I do or think about this situation. I'm not in a mood to contact him and ik he has issues like I wasn't able to meet him when he was asking me and I wasn't able to call him when he said and I called him after 8 days so maybe he is upset with me or he doesn't want to talk to me as he is not initiating any conversation he comes online and doesn't care to text me .so what should I think?
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Do not stretch silence too much ,express your thoughts ,know his thoughts patiently,don't keep issues in air,try n solve consult psychologist if need help
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Appreciate you for seeking and trying to clarify in a professional way. What we say this pattern as Gamy Behaviour that you both are going through. A better choice is to give a pause and think, give open space and unconditional support for him to share what he is going through, share your authentic vulnerable emotions.
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Seek professional counseling and psychotherapy, if possible couple session
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Caution: The more it continues the more toxic the relationship will be.
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Ms. Smriti
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Connect with psychiatrist and psychologist
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Ms. Roopali Das
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Bangalore
Maybe he is going through some emotional issue or other stress himself. Give him the time to process his own issues. You can convey that you wish well for him and will be available if he wishes to share with you what's bothering him. Once you do this much, free yourself from this cycle of overthrowing about what's wrong and what have you done. As much we want, we cannot control other's responses. We need to find a space of inner peace and freedom for ourselves first and then out of that space reach out to others/ the people we care for.
Blurred boundaries may be confusing for both of you, avoid doing that. Be assertive, keep the doors open ( for a limited time) and if the person doesn't respond even after that, have the courage to walk off.
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don't rush into making serious decisions. Breath, take control of yourself first.
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