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Me and my partner are not able to have intercourse. I'm 26M and she's 25F. I'm not able to penetrate her. It almost feels like I'm hitting at wrong place. Also, she feels pain in vaginal area even at slight touch of penis. We earlier consulted a gynecologist who prescribed her anesthetic cream and told her to practice with fingers first. While she's doing that regularly (she's still comfortable only with one finger at a time), there seems to be little improvement in the condition. Every time we try, we ensure that she's fully wet, and yet - her vagina starts paining at slight touch and doesn't open up. I've also tried using lubricants (water based as well as silicone ones), and all of them give her unbearable burning sensation. Even if I somehow try to push my penis, it feels like I'm not hitting at right place, or it just slips again and again. What should we do? This is frustrating us more everyday now.
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This is minor anxiety    contact to overcome
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Connect please
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Hi, Your partner is probably facing an issue of vaginismus. Further the issue as described by you above is termed as erectile dysfunction. Let me explain you about your issue in brief - Does it happen you get little Erection you feel you should go in and the moment you try to enter it goes down and it’s not hard enough for you to penetrate? Sometimes even if you penetrate you seem to lose your Erection soon? At some point in a man’s life, he may have difficulty achieving or maintaining an erection. Erection problems occur when you can’t achieve or maintain an erection that’s firm enough to have sexual intercourse. Erection problems are also known as: * erectile dysfunction (ED) * impotence * sexual dysfunction In your case I believe you have developed symptoms of Erectile dysfunction. However this issue is not a major problem to worry as there are medications and treatment available for the same. Rest assured your problem can be resolved.
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Take proper counseling to clear all ur doubts.. To enjoy sexual activity..
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for further information consult privately
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Take consultation
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To be specific and precise this is vaginismus which mainly requires detailed evaluation and Counselling individually and also as a couple
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Vaginismus is a medical condition that can be treated by a multidisciplinary team, which may include a psychiatrist or a mental health professional. Here are steps that may be involved in the treatment: 1. Assessment: The first step is a thorough assessment to determine the cause and severity of vaginismus. This may involve physical and psychological evaluations. 2. Education: Patients are educated about vaginismus, its causes, and how it can be treated. Understanding the condition is an essential part of therapy. 3. Psychotherapy: Psychiatrists or therapists may provide cognitive-behavioral therapy (CBT) or other forms of psychotherapy to address any underlying psychological issues contributing to vaginismus. 4. Relaxation Techniques: Patients are taught relaxation techniques such as deep breathing and progressive muscle relaxation to reduce anxiety and tension. 5. Pelvic Floor Physical Therapy: In some cases, a physical therapist may be involved to help patients address physical components of vaginismus through exercises and techniques. 6. Gradual Exposure: A graduated desensitization approach can be employed to help patients gradually become comfortable with vaginal penetration. This may involve the use of dilators or other techniques. 7. Support: Emotional support and open communication are crucial throughout the treatment process. Partners may also be involved in therapy to address any relationship issues. 8. Medications: In some cases, medication may be prescribed to manage anxiety or pain associated with vaginismus. 9. Follow-up and Maintenance: Patients may need ongoing therapy and support to maintain progress and address any relapses. It's essential to consult a healthcare professional, such as a gynecologist, for a proper diagnosis and treatment plan tailored to your specific needs. Psychiatrists can play a role in treating the psychological aspects of vaginismus, but a comprehensive approach may involve various healthcare providers.
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Need to rule out anxiety or misconception regarding sex .. try to open communicate with your. Wife .. and there should be no fear in mind .. and be natural ..you both will enjoy ..don't have any stigma regarding it
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