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Not able to ejaculate while having sex
I started masturbating when I was 10. Until I was 18, I used to masturbate by pressing my penis into the mattress in a prone position. Since I was 18 till now, I have been masturbating by stroking the penis. I masturbate everyday, sometimes more than once a day. It takes about 10 minutes or more of stroking for me to be able to ejaculate. I usually have to be rough and apply a lot of force with my hand to be able to ejaculate. Since I was 20, I have had sex with 5 partners. I wasn't able to ejaculate while having sex with any of them. My penis would stay erect for a long time, but I just couldn't ejaculate no matter how rough the penetration got. The last time I had sex was 2 weeks ago. This is causing a lot of issues between me and my partner. She thinks I'm not able to ejaculate because I am not attracted to her. But that is not the case. How can I get to a point where I am able to ejaculate just with penetration sex with my partner?
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Hello, it's seem you are facing side effects of excessive masturbation.. Masturbation is a natural phenomenon. All men do this but as a natural principle… excess of everything is always bad, so you must try to control it. Don't do it more than once or twice in a month. Don't worry you can do that... just do not watch porn… Try not to be remain alone, don't read or view sexual literature, books, whatsApp & porn videos etc. Avoid oily, more spicy, Chilly and junk foods. Do exercise daily for one hr or yoga mainly Pranayam… Meditation… vajroli Mudra... Ashwini mudra. Start reading religious books. Please note that now a days the main drawback and side effect of the masturbation is once you are addicted to masturbation mostly and always by watching porn… where you get different type of stories... relations... girls… body... and styles... etc. Once u got married u don't get all those things with wife so u don't get aroused and you don't get proper erection. Now a day's mostly patients comes to us with the complaint that they are not able to get erection with wife in the bed but they are getting erection in the bathroom while masturbation. This is creating a lot of problem in their married life so my advice is to control it. If u are not able to do so then you must consult your family doctor, many times it's not possible to control without the help of your doctor. You can take Chandra kala ras 1 tablet morning and night after food Yastimadhu chuma 3gms morning and night with water Sidhamakara dwaja 1 tablet morning and night after food. Do all the above suggested treatment for 3 months and see the results. If you don" get satisfactory results then you can also contact me on my private chat or directly in my clinic. We can send you the medicines by courier. My website www.kayakalpinternational.com
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Hi, The issue as described by you above is termed as delayed ejaculation. Delayed ejaculation — sometimes called impaired ejaculation — is a condition in which it takes an extended period of sexual stimulation for men to reach sexual climax and release semen from the penis (ejaculate). Some men with delayed ejaculation are unable to ejaculate at all. Delayed ejaculation can be temporary or a lifelong problem. Possible causes of delayed ejaculation include certain chronic health conditions, surgeries and medications. Treatment for delayed ejaculation depends on the underlying cause. It's normal for men to have delayed ejaculation from time to time. Delayed ejaculation is only a problem if it's ongoing or causes stress for you or your partner.
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Hello! I can help you only when i get to know more about ur conditions. Its mostly a psychosexual disorder.
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Ur condition needs treatment as early as possible .
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