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I lost my mom when I was in college she died becoz of cancer.my dad initially was so attached but I started slowly noticing changes from him. He dint cry when my mom died. He started saying I hate ur mom. Then he made me stay with my sis. She did love marriage. She faced issue with husband so she had sex relationship with some other married guy. I dint like. Later she divorced stating to society it was becoz of me and mil problem. She then had relationship with one more guy he is also married person with 2 kids. I dint like all this and left here & came. I loved a guy got married. I forced my sis to marry that guy. She got married. Society accepting my father and sister but not me. My mil she doesn't understand others problem she speaks very harsh and selfish. When my dad n mom was ill I'm the one who took care. But my dad likes my sis becoz both of them have same character of doing bad things. I explained abt my dad is bad to my mil and be kind . But she says I'm only bad. How to deal
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Hi. Don't focus on these aspects. Live a beautiful happy married life with ur husband. Get separated from maternal family members...think ahead of expanding ur new family
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For enhancing your coping ability consult a clinical psychologist.
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I understand how distressing this time may be for you and how brave you have been for handling all of this on your own. Your mom's death was a traumatic event in your life which changed the course of your life. From what you've written, you have issues with your father, sister, and mother in law and feel quite rejected by society. While your dad and sister do as wrong things, they are still accepted by society and prefer each other's company. However, you haven't done anything wrong and immoral but you feel very rejected and lonely. Even your own mother in law isn't nice to you.
I invite you to join a counselling session with me so that we can explore your issues in detail and come up with ways for you to cope.
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I understand, you have gone through a lot! Causing a emotional trauma and over whelm. You need to help yourself out of the over whelm with the help of a counselling psychologist like me. This will bring more clarity to deal with situations in life. Understanding self and others and their limitations also can help you deal better in life.
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Please seek help from a counselling psychologist.
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Ms. Hema Sampath
Psychologist
18 yrs exp
Bangalore
It is better to seek a professional support to overcome this issue..
Consulting a Psychologist might give you some clarity and acceptance about you and others..
For a detailed discussion and understanding you can reach me by using the link given below :-
https://prac.to/hema-sampath-psychologist-dir
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