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Being a women I am finding it very difficult to manage another women. Why is it so tuff to handle. Becoz they look better than me or ego or I speak less or they know more than me ? Not able to understand how to handle or this is turn general nature of a women being not very easy or help another women. I have issues with my own sister she looks better than me and her views are different. Not able to understand
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Accept yourself first.i think there are so many issues so just consult with a professional Counselor.and you will feel better.
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This stems from the childhood experience of being compared with others...those whom u consider rivals often are the ones whom u aspire to be..take them as role models ,a way to make sure u dont feel jealous ..
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involve in helping behavior with those less privileged..u will feel sense of fulfillment
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seek psychological help to bring in attitudinal changes
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Generally kids in the same family are treated differently unknowingly which impacts the child's perception for him/herself for a long time.
Whatever and however you have come to this conclusion of being not up to the mark as others is through your experience with others but what do you believe individually.
start thinking rationally every individual is beautiful in his/her way its just the perception of himself what reflects.start loving yourself you will see the change in yourself and the way you perceive others .probably more because you will not wait for others approval.
If Speaking less is your intrinsic behavior please don't push to be someone else,the key term is accept yourself work hard to be your best version.
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It is important to know that every individual is different and each person has their own unique personality. You are comparing yourself with your sister and you feel she looks better than you. It will be good if you can try to understand yourself better. It is important to know that you have your own good qualities and you have to recognise it. You can explain about what you are going through in detail with a psychologist. A psychologist will guide you on how to recognise your good qualities and understand yourself better.
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Consult a psychologist
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Feel free to contact me for counseling session
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You need to improve your perception and decision making skills.
It can be corrected by counseling sessions.
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you can contact me through online appointment for further assistance
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Hi. Be non judgmental. Accept yourself wholeheartedly. Don't see any shits in your personality. Accept concept of individual differences .
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Schema Focused Therapy
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grow as an independent person without perceiving faults in your persona
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Ms. Hema Sampath
Counselling Psychologist
18 yrs exp
Bangalore
It looks like some inferiority complex..
It is better to work on your self esteem to overcome this issue..
Consult a psychological Counselor to understand yourself better and to overcome this issue..
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For a detailed discussion and understanding you can reach me by using the link given below :-
https://prac.to/hema-sampath-psychologist-dir
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Mr. Gunjan Maithil
Psychologist
13 yrs exp
Bangalore
Hi... These kind of issues develop very early in life. Some part of it is innate, like temperament but most part is learnt/acquired. The learnt part can be changed to a manageable extent, but cannot be removed completely. Rather the better way is to learn to accept it, and moderate it, rather than trying to change it completely.
Some prominent presenting issues: Low Self-Esteem, Inter-Personal Relationship Concern, Social Anxiousness
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Start taking Counselling Sessions from a Psychologist to address these issues.
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