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If you are not talking term with your friend and she is trying to avoid you.so when she post whatz app status should I like the post and ask her where r you?
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Do what u feel like. At the same time know that she can still reject you, so be prepared for rejection as many times as u try to connect with her. If u can handle rejection very well. Next time you can wait for her to cope with her feelings as well give yourself time to cope with yours and then wait for her to connect.
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If your friend is avoiding you, it may be best to give her some space and time to sort out her feelings. Liking her WhatsApp status and asking where she is may come across as intrusive or pushy, and could further strain your relationship.
Instead of directly reaching out, consider giving her some space to cool off. You could try sending her a message after a few days or a week, asking if everything is okay and expressing that you miss talking to her. It's important to approach the situation with empathy and understanding, and give your friend the time and space she needs to process her feelings.
If she still doesn't respond or continues to avoid you, it may be worth considering whether there are deeper issues in your friendship that need to be addressed. In such cases, it may be helpful to seek the guidance of a therapist or counselor who can help you navigate the situation and work towards rebuilding your friendship.
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Depends.
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You are not in talking terms with a close friend and she is trying to avoid you. You are wondering if you should like her story when she posts on WhatsApp? For how long has she been your friend? You care about your friend, and you can decide what you want to do with a calm state of mind. If you feel like talking to her you can talk to her, it shows you are a caring person. If you are feeling anxious about talking to your friend consult a psychologist for counselling sessions.
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Hello,
It is always good to respect healthy boundaries. You can try to communicate and understand the reason for the fallout, if it is ok at both the ends.
Trust your intuition, sometimes allowing space if any relation helps to retain the bond in the long run.
Happy Healthy Living to you!
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Hi, Without making a move you will not come to know what is good for you or what is bad for you . Making your own decisions and taking responsibility for your own actions can boost self confidence.You should think about the pros and cons of keeping friendship with that person.It is up to you.
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The ultimate way to get clarity is to communicate . You can follow your feelings in this regard and send the message . Remember things are usually not as bad as they seem .
If you have identified what the problem is that has caused this then indicate to your friend that you value the relationship and hence are reaching out to rekindle your friendship.
Though , Social media options are good too for communication, try to meet with your friend for a conversation about the issue . In meeting face-to-face to resolve this works best as facial expressions and body language make things easier for both of you to understand each other.
So, have an open conversation with your friend regarding what went wrong and about ways to fix the relationship and move your friendship forward together.
Keep in mind , there are some things you can’t control. If you have tried all your options, have made no progress, then you need to accept , heal and to move on.
If you are finding it difficult, talk it through with a Psychologist to help you manage your feelings.
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Ms. Hema Sampath
Counselling Psychologist
18 yrs exp
Bangalore
If you are aware that your friend is avoiding or ignoring for whatever reason, it is better to follow the same with her..
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Ms. Leena Kasat
Psychologist
9 yrs exp
Mumbai
It is important to understand what was the reason that both of you stopped talking to each other. you better consult a therapist to understand the nuances in the relationship issue. counsellor can guide you when the whole picture is cleat before them.
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Mr. Aamitabh Debnaath
Counselling Psychologist
6 yrs exp
Kolkata
Depends
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If this is making you anxious, consult a psychologist.
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Ms. Sharmila Das
Counselling Psychologist
3 yrs exp
New Delhi
If you feel that your friend has been avoiding you, it might be a good idea to give her some time and space. Meanwhile, you can reflect on how you feel about the fact that the two of you aren’t on talking terms. Doing so may also help you understand the possible reasons due to which the differences have emerged between the two of you.
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You can book a counselling session with me to discuss your feelings and the entire situation in detail. Having a safe space to speak without judgement will surely make you feel better.
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Ms. Smriti
Counselling Psychologist
18 yrs exp
Bangalore
Hi..it's totally upto you..if you feel that it will make you feel good..do it..don't focus on response..Focus on your happiness.
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Mr. Gunjan Maithil
Psychologist
13 yrs exp
Bangalore
Hi... Why not rather call her and ask her time to meet. If she doesn't picks up call, you can drop a simple message that you were thinking about her and felt like talking and meeting. You can do whatever you want, there is no right and wrong in such matters. Her response will not be completely based on your actions. We tend to think a lot, but people's actions/behaviours are more a product of their own inner state and environment, rather than someone else's behaviours. Although, we can never make anyone understand this, but a bowl that is empty cannot spill water. No matter how much someone shakes it.
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Just follow your heart and be polite and trusting in your approach. Relationships go through phases like season/whether. When the time is right, everything falls back into its natural place.
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