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My long distance boyfriend notices that i go beyond 12 midnight mostly when i go out with my workmates drinking. He is worried for my safety which i understand. And he wanted me to come home before 12 midnight. He also asks for proof that i got home. And he added that he will just be in  emotional torture like burn the letters that i gave him in case i do it again. It feels not right but i felt like i need to give his conditions a shot. I am hesitant to go out with my workmates or friends in the future because i might break his rules. What should i do or am i just overreacting?
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Hello This type of boundation weakens the bond between the couples and makes the life hell.you need to address the issue earliest before it affect your life ,you are already  feeling the pressure of this type of behaviour and no one can handle this for very long time.discuss the issue with your boyfriend  and try to make him understand the things.please take help of any professional regarding this.you can contact me also for any help. Take care.
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Learn to set boundaries.. You are an adult and can take care of yourself Tell him how this behavior can adversely impact the relationship Consult with me or any psychologist for therapy and counseling Connect with me through text
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