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My son is stubborn and introvert .
My son who is 7 years old is good at home .He speaks very good .he is very talkative.but he doesn't call anyone with relation except mom and dad. He just freezes if he see one new person, even with our own friends and relatives. He is becoming adamant and keeps saying same thing until that is done. He is irriyating alot .His behaviour is weird sometimes that makes me to beat and shout hard to control him at the moment. But his grasping nd memory is good. He has no friends and no kids around him to play since his birth. He was brought only with us. But he loves to play with others but only problem is he should like them. Please guide how to deal ? Any counselling works Thanks!
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Stop beating and scolding. Take the child to park where other kids of his age are playing. Encourage him to play with them. Arrange gathering of kids of his age. Slowly his behaviour will change. Visit a clinical psychologist as earliest as possible for assessment and guidance.
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Hello, Glad to know that you are seeking help,the issues which you mentioned need further clarification.Child's behaviour can sometimes be too much to handle but don't shout and beat him,this behavior of yours can invite so many issues which not only will negatively your relationship with him but it will have a psychological scar on your child's psyche.If you are confused how you will handle him in such a situation how can you expect from a 7 year old to comply with your confusional state.
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Detailed session with Clinical Psychologist will help
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The situation that you have described points towards the need for formal assessment of the child.Also we need to understand that children learn through observing others.The symptoms such a repeating something again and again point towards some neurological issues that a child might be experiencing. Hitting the child will relieve you of your frustration but at the same time make the child aversive to you and would be very negative for the relationship in long run.Please see a child Psychologist immediately.
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You can get in touch with me ,we can do a proper assessment of the child and work out the future course of action.
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learn some anger management for yourself, do not let your anger and frustration affect the child. accept that your child is unique ,focus on his positives ,enhance them and wherever there are shortcomings, seek professional help
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