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My mother is getting stressed
Few years back, one random astrologer had told my father that his life span will be till 62.My father will be 62 next March.Now, he has told this thing to my mom.My mom she is not sleeping from past 5 days and it's affecting her mental health.How to deal with such situations?
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First of all you don't need counseling but your mother second thing prove your mother astrology is pseudoscience.
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Hello dear..your mother is showing reaction towards this situation.It is very natural based on the beliefs she has had. If she is a firm believer in astrology then she needs to visit someone else to keep her sanity in place and be comfortable with the whole thing.What I understand is that the restlessness is going to subside over a period of time as our mind and body takes its own sweet time to absorb any unpleasant situation happened around us. If it still continues she needs to be trained towards regulating her emotions through counselling or therapy.
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Thanks for reaching out. What an astrologer says might not be scientific. It is not possible to predict the future. There is nothing wrong with believing in astrology, you probably have to talk to a more professional astrologer. There are times astrologers say things without meaning. Try to not think too much about what astrologer says as long as your father has no health issues there is nothing to worry about. If what the astrologer says is making you feel anxious consult a psychologist for counselling sessions.
There is nothing wrong with believing in astrology, however there is a science behind it. There are courses on astrology, contact someone who has done a course on astrology.
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Contact me for counselling sessions. Along with counselling I can suggest natural foods to calm the mind.
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Change your astrologer....
Most of the problems will be solved.
If still health issues persist then you can contact an expert Psychologist who is a good homeopathic physician.
It can be treated well with counseling sessions and homeopathic medicine effectively.
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I have been working as a Homeopathic Psychiatrist for the last 17 years. you can contact me through an online appointment for further assistance.
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Hi, Consult a psychologist for professional help
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I can understand your mother's feelings after hearing this. While death is inevitable, it is also scary and the thought of parting from a loved one is even more distressing. It would be advisable to help your mother work through her emotions, insecurities, fears and the thought of losing her spouse. It is important she processes these emotions.
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Consulting a counsellor / therapist will be beneficial
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Reconnect with few more astrologer for her satisfaction. Check with Astrologer when he is leaving. No scientific evidences.
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Ms. Simran Dugar
Mental Health Counselor
4 yrs exp
Kolkata
I completely understand how distressing it can be when a prediction like this affects your family's well-being. To support your mother through this challenging time, open and honest communication is essential. Encourage her to express her fears and anxieties, and be there to actively listen and provide emotional support. It might also be beneficial to suggest consulting a mental health professional or therapist who can help her develop coping strategies for managing these overwhelming thoughts.
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Emphasize the importance of living in the present moment and cherishing the time your parents have together. Ensure your parents have a strong support system in place, including friends and family who can provide additional emotional support during this difficult time.
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Mr. Gunjan Maithil
Psychologist
13 yrs exp
Bangalore
Hi.. Please find another good pandit/astrologer and conduct a pooja or havana, whatever he suggests to prevent any unfortunate happening. Please do not spend too much money on it. Although, it is not a scientific solution but it will work. Mind has the power to create a reality that it believes to be true, there are people in other fields as well, who know this and use it as per their professional/ethical standards. Remember, I am neither questioning astrology which is also a form of knowledge, neither I am denouncing the scientific temper. I am only suggesting a simpler and practical way to resolve a problem, which may either be a superstition, belief, truth, or just an unfounded & irrational fear.
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If the situation persists, consult a doctor or a Psychologist.
Scientific Guidance and Counselling is required.
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Pooja Gupta
Counselling Psychologist
2 yrs exp
Kolkata
Hi!
I understand how your mother must be feeling or you must be feeling for that matter. I’m sorry to say but it’s extremely stupid for any person who claims to be an astrologer or “future teller” to say something like that to anyone as it affects people. In such a situation I would recommend you to speak to your mother into not giving it so much importance and try to get herself involved in different fun activities. This might help short term, but it’s better to address it fully and maybe practising beliefs of karma (good/bad). Instead of astrology, developing an interest in karma can help in such situations as that can be in your control and your actions. Meditation can help.
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Speak to a counsellor/therapist if the above doesn’t help.
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