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Going through mutual divorce process, how can I win her back? Trying for last 1.5 years but of no help.
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Hi. Say your mind to her. Ask forgiveness. See a dream together again.
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recall positive moments jointly
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Both of you visit a clinical psychologist.
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consult a clinical psychologist
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Ms. Divya Bhatia
Psychologist
3 yrs exp
Bangalore
Thank you for asking this question. I understand how overwhelming it must be for you to experience this.
Divorce can be hard and difficult to deal with. As you stated, it's a mutual divorce then you should reflect upon why you decided to divorce her.
You need to think why you are having feelings to get her back after the process, what do you want from the relationship and understand it.
Communicate clearly with your partner about each other's needs, wishes and how can it be better. Understand and respect what your partner wishes for.
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Reflect on the thoughts
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If things still feel overwhelming, it would be advisable to talk to a therapist.
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Ms. Hema Sampath
Psychologist
18 yrs exp
Bangalore
Marriage Counselling might be useful to reconcile..
Yet, both of you need to attend the sessions..
Check with her, whether is she willing to seek a professional support because they will be neutral to both of you..
Tbats only a chance, there is a probability that it can can turn out to be either of the answers..
Still, it is better to take that chance also..
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https://prac.to/hema-sampath-psychologist-dir
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Mr. Gunjan Maithil
Psychologist
13 yrs exp
Bangalore
Hi... Please elaborate more on what do you mean by “Win her back"? How is the divorce mutual when you still feel like winning her back?
We need to understand the circumstances and reasons leading to the divorce and the present decision/resolve of both parties involved.
If one person has made up their mind on divorce, it is highly unlikely to change their mind. But if there is any room left for reconciliation, Marital Counselling/Couple Therapy can help you both a lot.
In case, the other person is unwilling to go into marital counselling, you can start taking Counselling Sessions from a Psychologist alone. But your reasons should be clear, psychotherapy/counselling is not meant to change or manipulate other people/situations. It meant to help the person taking Counselling to change their cognitions, emotions, and behaviours to adjust better in their environment and to learn necessary skills to deal with their issues.
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Start taking Counselling Sessions from a Psychologist, jointly or individually.
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