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Mental Instability
I am married for the last 8+ years, have a 7 year old son.
I have not been able to live an independent life ever, I crib a lot by looking at other people around me.
It seems that everyone is living life king size.
I am not at all good in convincing others by playing with words due to which I have never got growth in my career, neither I could take my marriage's decision on own.
I fell in love with a girl who was my good friend but could not propose her due to fear of listening 'no' from her and that my parents won't support this decision.
Still I am unable to forget her, my wife knows about it and she doesn't like it.
My Wife is not modern in comparison to the girls of today but the one who was my crush is.
My mind is very perplexed and I am unable to figure out what to do.
Somewhere, I feel hurt that I could not go for love marriage as almost all of my relatives have married that way.
There are several other points as well.
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There are few introvert personalities like you, shy, morbid, think of self complex about themselves. every body is part of parents genes. int is not wrong to be born like introvert it is wrong to die with inferiority complex, ,
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if you don take any professional step, your planing to raise your child also to be like that, hope you dont your kid like yours?
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Dr. Amitabh Ghosh
Psychiatrist
24 yrs exp
Mumbai
its a very simple problem. all these sufferings is because of some fixed belief deep in your mind. it can be found out with a good and detailed history. once that is done you can get over the problem with treatment.
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Ms. Hema Sampath
Counselling Psychologist
18 yrs exp
Bangalore
Life is not about compromises and sacrifices.
Life is about Choosing the right at the right time.
If you have choice, Choose the Best.
If you do not have choice, do your best.
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For a detailed understanding, consult a psychologist.
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Hie.. I can understand your problem. but we need to talk about moving on.. it will take 3 sessions for your complete well-being. Help your self by going for counseling.
Kindly get in touch
We will help you out. As we need more information for the same.
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