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Marraige related problem
It's been a year I'm married. From last 5-6 months I'm having adjustment issues with my husband. I don't feel like sharing anything with him as I feel he will not understand me from some past experiences. There is difference in the way we both think. Though we belong to same community there is difference in way we are brought up, our values and cultures are different and this difference is bothering me. I'm not able to adjust with him and his family and accept them completely. This makes me long for my parents.
Need help to deal with this issue.
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Hi. This is Dr Kishore.
Relationship issues are very common now a days.
The confusion stage you are going through is also very common.
But in order to help you, I need more details.
You can contact me through Practo, so that we can discuss the issues and I can guide you in the best way possible.
All the best.
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I understand
You should should consult a marital therapist to work on the differences and reach common ground
With right help things will improve
Consult with me or any psychologist for therapy and counseling
All the best
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Hello Friend, Good that you are seeking a help here. Marriage relationship generally gets into such expectations gaps or understanding gaps. It's quite possible to experience such indifference in this time period. Don't be conclusive about the relationship with such perceptions.
As you have mentioned about your adjustment problem, it needs further evaluation to know your side of the mindset issues and concerns to recommend a suitable suggestions.
In such suitations, it's better to take a professional help of marriage counselor cum psychologist help to understand the husband /wife relationship dynamics and understand suitable changes required to overcome this problem.
Call me directly or online through Practo app for further evaluation and recommendations. Be positive. You will be alright soon.
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Dr. Devlina Talapatra
Psychiatrist
9 yrs exp
Kolkata
Hello!
A change in an ongoing life situation can bring about certain emotional or psychological disruptions. Often marriage is a a common cause of what is known as Adjustment Disorder. In these cases a detailed history and mental status evaluation of is required often for both the partners. A plethora of therapies and appropriate medicines if required are the usual management options. I am sure you are going to be just fine.
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Talking at length with the exact details of your problem with a professional should be step one. You can reach me on Practo online consultation. Thank you and do not start panicking right away!
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Ms. Hema Sampath
Counselling Psychologist
18 yrs exp
Bangalore
I appreciate your initiative at the early times of marriage itself.
If possible, do Contact me for further details.
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