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I have been married for 3 years .I'm have 2 sisters inlaw .my husband listens to her mother and abuses me and my family all the time. He abuses me for not having children and wants to go for 2nd marriage. He abuses me for not doing work .he wonts care my pain .my hurt feelings. I came to my home becz he bet me for comparison with my sister in law . He will take much care of his family. He abuses my family .he comes to me when he was in need.he wont allow me to go anywhere and to work too .he is a software engineer. I am a btech graduate lost 3years in his abuse thinking that he may change if I have children but doctor said there are many complications in me .what step should I take should I continue relationship with husband or ho for a talk in our family with a mediator. I'm in a lot of love with him but he has conditional love
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You & your husband needs an marital assessment before giving any help. Do visit a licensed clinical psychologist near you or book an appointment on practo.
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Hi , it looks like you are going through a lot ... I can understand it is very difficult and complicated situation for you ... you need help to process and think through all the side before you can take any step . Speak with some counselling psychologist . You can take and appointment via app and fix session with me .
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Before suggesting any thing we need to know more about the situation . Please reach out . Thanks and take care .
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Really sorry to be hearing all this . You must be in a lot of pain mentally I presume. The first and foremost thing to calmly do is introspection. That is you need to ask yourself keeping all the points you just listed here jn the message is being witg him making you feel comfortable, happy , free and loved ?
Think about this calmly and with a free mind . You will get the answer to your questions after a little thinking. Are you really happy or does this marriage union make you feel complete ? Irrespective of what your answer maybe that is your personal choice
You need to then decide thr course of action once your absolutely sure about what exactly do you what out of this from him as an individual.
Wishing you good health 🙏
Hoping this helps a little
Stay strong nonetheless
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take deep breaths, calm your mind and let the thoughts flow in and introsepct
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consult a professional psychologist/ counselor once you have decided or if you need any further guidance at all or even if your stuck take guidance.
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Ms. Sumithra Sridhar
Psychologist
11 yrs exp
Bangalore
Dear human, this must have been difficult to share, but thank you for reaching out. As the Lead Relationships and Couples Counsellor at Heart It Out, I would be happy to help you navigate your concerns privately in therapy. Your mental health matters, and that will always be a priority if you choose to seek support.
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Please book an appointment with me through Practo, and we can work on managing your concerns. Hope to hear from you soon- take care.
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Ms. Ritika Matta
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8 yrs exp
Hyderabad
You can contact me for an online appointment and we can explore this narrative together
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Ms. Neha Ravichandran
Psychologist
10 yrs exp
Bangalore
Please see the pros and cons of the relationship and decide if this is toxic .
Is the relationship helping you become a better person and improving your life or bringing you down.
If he is open, you both can seek couple counselling .
Please focus on building your life. I may not be able to discuss further due to limited information
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