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I am suffering from vaginismus. Unable to perform Intercourse. So unable to conceive.  Visited a fertility centre but unable to do the vaginal scanning because i got scared and also suffered pain at the scanning time.Need some counseling for that.
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Hi, I'm sorry to hear that you're experiencing vaginismus, which can be both physically and emotionally challenging, especially when it impacts your ability to conceive. It's important to know that you're not alone, and many individuals face similar difficulties. Vaginismus often involves involuntary muscle contractions in the vaginal area, which can make any vaginal penetration—whether during intercourse or procedures like a scan—uncomfortable or painful. Seeking counseling from a therapist who specializes in sexual health can be incredibly helpful. They can provide you with coping strategies, techniques to manage anxiety, and exercises that may promote relaxation and comfort with the idea of vaginal penetration. Additionally, discussing your fears and experiences with a supportive healthcare professional can also be beneficial; they may suggest gentle pelvic floor therapy or desensitization techniques to help ease the discomfort you're facing. Open communication with your partner about your feelings and fears can further support your emotional well-being during this time. Remember, taking small steps at your own pace is crucial, and it's okay to prioritize your comfort as you navigate this journey.
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vaginismis is condotion can called pschosomatic ,so you need to consult both psychologist and gynaecologist ,there is no need to worry too much it will cured resolved easily .
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try to keep relax at time of intercourse so its help in relaxation of pelvic floor muscle
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dont be anxious at time of intercourse dont think anyting negative at time of intercourse
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Hi, Consult a psychologist for professional help
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Hi.. connect for session we can discuss in detail about it
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Hi, sure you may connect with me for the free intro call and we can discuss what can be done for the same.
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Consult a sexologist and a psychologist for vaginismus. Vaginismus, where vaginal muscles involuntarily contract, can stem from a combination of physical and psychological factors, including past sexual trauma, anxiety, fear of pain, or medical conditions like infections or injuries. Vaginismus, a condition causing painful vaginal contractions, is treatable through a combination of therapies including pelvic floor physical therapy, vaginal dilators, and counseling or therapy, addressing both physical and psychological aspects. Consulting a physiotherapist trained in pelvic health is important to get the right exercises and guidance for pelvic floor exercises. Vaginal dilators come in different sizes, are used to gently stretch the vaginal muscles and help people become more comfortable with penetration. Counselling is also advised to cope up fear of pain and anxiety during penetration. Consult for the same.
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Probably.. Therapies does help in identifying the root cause of this issue.. It could be due to some fear or incident of your childhood which could be blocking your mind in participating..
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Hi... Please understand this, Vaginismus is a common sexual dysfunction that occur in females and it can be completely recovered with proper guidance and treatment. You need to consult three professionals- Gynaecologist, Psychologist, and Physical therapist. In some cases where the depressive symptoms need to be regulated by a medication (SSRI), a Psychiatrist may also be consulted. The treatment involves physical examination to rule out any infection or other physiological cause, psychosexual therapy, and pelvic floor exercises. Take your time and choose a professional with whom you feel comfortable sharing all your concerns freely and inhesistantly. Once a relationship of trust is developed other professional may be consulted and the treatment may begin.
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Consult a Gynaecologist- Physical Examination and Guidance. Consult a Psychologist- Psychosexual Therapy,  Behavior Therapy, Interpersonal Guidance and Counselling. Consult a Physical Therapist-  who specializes in Pelvic Floor Health and Pelvic Floor Exercises.
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Hi, It can be addressed easily. Dont worry. Feel free to connect with me. 
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