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Loosing the Erection within seconds
I am married 2.5 yrs , during our intimate moments it is slow to get erection and it looses within seconds.
I used to masturbate regularly before marriage.
I get erection normally during imaginations .
My work nature is like 10 days I will be with my wife and reaming 20 i will be away from home .
During I am with my my wife i won't be masturbating. But while I am away I try to control and in 3-4 days I will again start to masturbate.
I want to stop this habit and I wish to have a good intimacy with my wife.
I tried to stop this habit for long still not able to stop it .
Please guide me what I can do.
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It seems to be a psychosexual obsession leading to sexual issues like ED and PE and excessive masturbation.
The cause can be psychological or physical.
It needs to be treated asap otherwise it may get complicated and can affect your personal and sexual life.
It can be well treated with counseling sessions and homeopathic medicine effectively and without any side effects.
It needs to be treated in a holistic approach for complete recovery.
You need an expert Sexologist who is a good homeopathic physician and psychologist.
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I have been working as a sexologist, homeopathic physician and Counseling psychologist for the last 17 years of experience. You can contact me through an online appointment for further assistance.
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Hi. Medicines can help. Consult online for treatment
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Stop watching porn..
Take proper counselling..
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consult for guidance
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What you are describing is very commonly seen in men who have developed a strong pattern of solo stimulation and mental arousal over many years before marriage. The fact that you still get erections during imagination is actually reassuring because it suggests that the basic erection mechanism is functioning. Your difficulty appears more related to conditioning, performance pressure, irregular intimacy pattern due to work separation, anxiety, and habitual masturbation behavior rather than complete loss of sexual ability.
Erectile dysfunction in such situations is often situational and influenced by stress, anticipation, guilt, excessive self-monitoring, fear of disappointing the partner, and the brain becoming more accustomed to fantasy-based stimulation rather than relaxed partnered intimacy. Long periods away from your wife followed by pressure to âperform wellâ during limited time together can also increase anxiety and make erections unstable.
Masturbation itself is not always harmful, but when it becomes frequent, compulsive, associated with strong fantasy conditioning, or used as stress relief repeatedly, it can sometimes interfere with natural intimacy patterns and confidence.
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While together, spend more time on relaxed intimacy, touch, communication, and emotional comfort instead of repeatedly checking erection quality. Maintain regular exercise, sleep, hydration, stress control, and reduce excessive pornography or overstimulation if present. Since your issue involves both erection confidence and difficulty controlling masturbation habits, counseling and structured sexual wellness guidance could help significantly. For confidential and supportive guidance regarding erection concerns, masturbation habit control, and married sexual wellness, you may connect with us at 9 3 1 5 6 6 1 5 6 5.
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Maintain regular exercise, disciplined sleep, reduced stress, limited fantasy overstimulation, emotional bonding with your partner, and gradual behavioral correction rather than harsh self-suppression, as sexual confidence often improves naturally with consistency and reduced anxiety. Thank you
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Take consultation
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Dr. Yashwant Singh
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Ghaziabad
For problem what ever you are facing is treatable but need a complete check up and lab test . Visit
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