Lack of concentration in

I did a bit different education did Bcom with BCA then Mcom now Doing MBA with CA I also completed 3 year of apprenticeship under a CA which is compulsory..but I am not getting way to success.. I am unable to concentrate on studies. I cant sit and study. I dont have any loyal friend. I am lonely. I even dont have any female friend. I dont know what is my fault. I dont know what to do in my life. I dont have any job now. Because as I didnt clear CA 2nd stage and Final stage I am not able to get good job. I am getting complex now and I might go in depression. I dont see any bright future. What to do?. As I was fair skin type person but due to many reasons my skin specially facial is now turned to dark brown. Because of which everytime i see myself in mirror i just hate myself. My confidance is now negative. I walk on roads by bending my head down. I cant interact with people. Negative confidance, Complex, Lot of Nervousness. Please help me.
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Ms. Sneha Bhat Bangalore | Counselling Psychologist
I see that you have been an ambitious as well as capable person. You have pursued 2 bachelors and 2 masters and now pursuing the third which needs really high motivation level to achieve. I also see that the process of clearing CA has demotivated you badly. As you have experienced, CA tests your will power & motivation level to a great extent however it need not be a test of your capacity. You have already crossed several milestones like the current one in the past. If you are failing at this juncture, it needs a thorough analysis for you to know what went wrong. Failure can break you in many ways if not understood properly. It currently has reduced your confidence level as well as self-esteem spoilt your self-image & causing lot of pain. It indeed is a negative loop which is affecting your performance in interviews. First thing to do will be to sit with a psychologist/career development coach and understand the way you are studying & comprehending the subjects, your answering pattern & answers in exams, and things that are going wrong. It has to give you a clear picture of where you stand, where exactly you wish to go & how to get there. With your level of motivation & hard work, i am sure, you will learn a lot from this phase & build a great life. All the Best.
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