I feel like everybody is ignoring me, my good relations with peoples are now breaking. Peoples now make excuses to talk with me. Even though my intentions are good but they take the situation opposite side. Mostly my employer always try to compress my feeling, he always try to supress me. I feel like he is not having any humanity anymore. I do not good freinds anymore. All are left and now feeling very alone and feeling of crying. I feel its my mistake that they get hurt. Don't know what to do and how can i tackle this situation and hopefully build my relations with me. I am a very sensitive person. And everybody used me alot. They are not even trying to answer that whether i had a good intentions about them. Now i feel very irritated and i feel life won't work me for the comming future days. Because even peoples starts hating me. I don't even know what made them hurted. When i ask them they used to tell some excuses.
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Hi you. It must feel overwhelming to go through what you are, I understand that circumstances are feeling unfair from your point of view right now and you must be constantly itching to do something about it, or talk to someone, justify yourself to more people, clear out your intentions with everyone, find out why they are being the way they are because not knowing can get frustrating. But this is exactly what you should NOT be doing right now. Realise the more you do, especially when things are this heated up, the more you will mess up. BEST solution right now would be to step back and go into silent mode and let time cool things down. The world reflects your own feelings back at you so the more you think everyone around you hates you and is ignoring you, the more of that same feeling you are going to attract through your micro behaviour and vibe. The more you want people to come talk to you and understand you, the more desperation youâre going to show and people generally arenât welcoming of desperate vibes. The hardest thing right now is also the best thing to do - that is do nothing at all. You donât have to justify yourself to anyone. You donât have to hate yourself for what is happening. All you have to do is let the past be in the past and silently move on. Time always always fixes things. But obviously the solution doesnât stop at this. We need to dig deeper to understand how you even ended up in this situation so Iâd recommend some therapy to help you introspect and understand yourself better so you can avoid falling into such situations again.
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Hello I can understand ur issues . I feel u r highly sensitive and emotional person. First you understand ur priority. Love ur self. Just think about urself. People who are ignoring you give dem.space. you should work for ueself.
First thing yiu should be with dem who care for you. Who gives you happiness no matter who dey are.
Yiu can make a journal try to write ur emotions on d paper and flush dem
Try to do dose things which makes you busy and u feel happy.
Make a gd schedule . Heal urself. Do exercise no matters only for 20 min.
Still you need a psychologist who understands you completely.a nd give you the right direction.
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