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Controlling feelings
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Last year i broke my humerus bone and i am very much attracted toward my doctor, i am getting very very attached to him. I even expressed my feelings from him, but he says its not right which is actually correct. I neex help on this.. how do i control my feelings, sometimes i am in tears because of all these. I am a married woman with a kid of 4 years old. I have no intentions to ditch my family, but i am unable to bring myself out of that intense emotion. Please help.
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Getting attracted to opposite sex is quite natural and acceptable. But need to know where to draw the line. Probably it could be due to emotional engagement, similarities or common likeability. Need to know, which made you to fall for the person or got you so attracted. Once you identified , this would help you to address the emotional issues too.
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Focus on productive activity. Speak with your husband to have a couple counselling session. This would help your husband to understand your emotions in a better way and fill those gaps.
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Feelings which you have towards your doctor is ok not to be worried. U need to deal with emotional factors. Emotionally u attached to ur doctor. Opposite poles attract each other. But if you see in-depth your need is not fulfilled with your hubby. Lack of communication, expectations are not met. You need to consult with therapist might help you to come out.
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It happens with many people .its only our thought process which compels us and attraction with anyone is only the game of our thoughts which leads to emotional factor,and when you will learn this technique to control your emotions and thoughts ,you can easily overcome not only from this situation but every type of circumstances in your life. any professional can help you in this. if you need my help you can contact me online also.
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Ms. Hema Sampath
Counselling Psychologist
18 yrs exp
Bangalore
It looks like that, you are attracted to him, because he is providing your emotional needs too.
It sounds like that you are Lacking that from your family..
Think about that.
For a detailed discussion and understanding you can reach me by using the link given below :-
https://prac.to/hema-sampath-psychologist-dir
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Ms. Neha Ravichandran
Psychologist
9 yrs exp
Bangalore
Mind is a very powerful tool which helps us to decide and make choices. Learn how to use it well. If you wish to learn something new to refine your life . Please book an online or in clinic appointment.
Since the information is less to give you complete consultation here.
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Counselling session will help you strengthen your mind.
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Online / in clinic appointment: Ms. Neha Ravichandran
https://www.practo.com/bangalore/therapist/mrs-neha-ravichandran-psychologist
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