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Chronic complainers
How to deal with a chronic complainer at home? Making me emotionally sick and draining out my energy.I have tried to work on their issue but still they are not satisfied.Fully fed up.My husband and mother are making fuss in every situation.He calls my parents and complain now and then.I am a working woman still tried best to attend their needs.He threat me to divorce.
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Complaining stems from underlying dissatisfaction, identity the root cause to take the steps to resolve .
Complaining as a way to seek validation, attention.
Talk to your Husband , spend quality time together , Share how it makes you feel.
Suggest couple’s therapy to learn simple powerful tools and practices that build connection, soften communication.
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Hi,You cannot satisfy each and every one.Keeping a toxic relationship will cause stress and anxiety.Talk to your family and friends.Consult a psychologist for professional help.
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Connect with psychologist to resolve it.
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counseling
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You need counseling sessions to deal with your problem in a better way. You should book an online appointment with me then together we can find a solution for you.
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Book an online appointment.
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Ms. Hema Sampath
Counselling Psychologist
18 yrs exp
Bangalore
Consult a psychological Counselor for a Marriage Counselling..
It would be better, if both of you attend it..
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Ms. Simran Dugar
Mental Health Counselor
4 yrs exp
Kolkata
I hear you're facing challenges with chronic complaining at home, and it's taking a toll on your well-being. In such situations, open communication is crucial. Express your feelings and establish boundaries, clarifying how they affect you. Counseling can help you work through this concern. If you are up for it you can reach me through Mind Sculpt for therapy, which can provide a structured space to navigate through these issues. Prioritize self-care to maintain your emotional balance.
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Dr. Pooja Sharma (PhD)
Clinical Psychologist
24 yrs exp
Ahmedabad
The key is to strengthen yourself.
To work out different solutions for the persisting problems.
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you can discuss with people you are confident about to give you good advice or else seek professional advice
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Believe in yourself, no problem is big enough sometimes we need to change the formula.
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Ms. Sheetal Kusumbe
Counselling Psychologist
21 yrs exp
Thane
Hello,
Your stress is understandable, as you are dealing with constant complaining, threats and are unable to manage it.
However, you are not responsible for how another person perceives or reacts. You can only protect your well-being by:
1) Effectively communicating your feelings.
2) Drawing healthy boundaries of what is acceptable & what is not. Expressing these boundaries is significant.
3) Take a pause and indulge in more peaceful, engaging and enjoyable activities.
4) Self Care by indulging your senses, pampering yourself with grooming, confidently choosing your happy sources.
Only you can make yourself happy. Meditate, up your mental immunity so that you peace shall not be ruffled.
You can manage yourself well, despite noisy surroundings. Seek the peace and calm from with your core centre.
More power to you.
You can consult for further professional guidance.
Happy Healthy Living!
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Mr. Vijay Kumar
Psychologist
30 yrs exp
Navi Mumbai
When it is at home, 'complaints' often indicate the absence or reduction in meaningful and trustworthy communication. In this case, what needs to be assessed is the quality of communication between the 'complainant' and the person onto whom the complaint is directed. Empathy (thinking and feeling from the other person's point of view and situation) can play a significant role in improving the quality of communication. On the other hand, the 'complainant' could also be suffering from mental health issues like paranoid personality disorder. Either way, consulting a psychologist can help greatly in improving the overall condition. Hence I suggest you to consult a psychologist and explore possible remedies.
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Please consult a psychologist.
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Dr. Santosh D Dasarwar
Counselling Psychologist
19 yrs exp
Navi Mumbai
You need counseling sessions to improve your perception and decision making skills.
Connect with the expert Psychologist.
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you can contact me through an online appointment for further assistance
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