Borderline Personality Disorder solution

I have tried counselling and medicines. Still think I have issues with my mental health. Not sure what are the reasons or if things could have been with less failures, more support and understanding from family, a life partner etc. Most of the things revolve around money in this world and nothing different in my case, people change and I think better financial condition could have resolved some issues if not all. Recently missed a big opportunity which could have changed my life, don't want to die and still got some energy left to try and improve things. Everyone including mom have changed just because I am struggling with life and couldn't be that ideal son with 9-5 job, one beautiful wife, kids and go out with them to meet all relatives. They don't care about me or my problems and every morning I have to see or hear things that affect my mental health. I don't know if anyone has a solution. Hoping things become better someday.