Bartholin cyst. In my marriage life?

Hi, I was detected a bartholin cyst on left side of vargina. I consult two gyenocologist. One suggess me to surgery to drain the cyst. Another one gave me a satrogly tablet for three days and check my cyst and ask me to visit if there is any discomfort. I did not feel any infection pain from the cyst till now. I can feel the cyst it is the lemon size. I am unmarried to the second gyenocologist did not suggess me surgery. I do sit bath but the cyst neither grow nor decrease. Is there any problem due to this? I did not feel any pain or discomfort while sitting or walking in that area everything is normal except that cyst. Is there any way to drain the cyst by oral pills or any other method without surgery? The cyst is in same size for more than six months? Please suggess me any ideas to drain the cyst? May I normal in this age or it will create any other problem in my marriage life? Please clear my doubt.