Depression can have a devastating impact on a marriage. However, there could be chances that the marriage itself might be reinforcing the depression. Unrecognized depression can have a deep impact on a marriage, and the signs are not always obvious. Modern life can be stressful, and it’s easy to think that we (or our spouses) are “just tired” or “too busy” or “out of sorts” when depression may be a factor. This can definitely create misunderstandings and emotional walls in a marriage. For example; your partner’s critical words and judgmental tone of voice which maybe affecting you to the core, you feeling less powerful and dominated by your partner,or you are always been told by your partner what to do,or you are a victim of verbal or physical abuse by your partner,or your partner is not ready to take up their share of responsibilities.

Hello Friend, Good that you are seeking a help here. Any relationship, especially married relationship need Open communication and give & take among partners for trouble free life. Most common mistakes in such scenario is, not setting or openly discussing about your expectations or desires. Such gaps will lead to emotional disturbance or mental stress. Be positive. Suggest you to take relationships counseling to first ventilate your feeling, emotions and concerns. I am sure with such open discussions, you will explore different options to handle the relationship issues and bring back the joy. Don't hesitate to ask for help. Feel free to reach me online for further assistance. Be positive. You both will be alright soon.

Counselling both of you is advisable. To discuss in detail you can get in touch with me through Practo. Happy to help !

Hi !! How long have you known the person you are married to? How did you meet? Consult a psychologist to begin with. Would be happy to help.

It is appreciated that you have open up on a platform for your problem.

Hi Mam Definitely you r not having any mental illness. What illness you are describing may be a adjustment disorder and that may lead to depression. Let's have clear discussion then definitely we will help you out with proper guidance for further management in either Therapy or medication. If you need detail evaluation we may need to call you to higher centre for that or may ref you to NIMHANS

Hi Would you open up more and give details. I believe you should discuss your concerns in detail with a mental health professional to gain an insight about nature of problem and ways to overcome it through psychotheraputic techniques Consult with me or any psychologist for therapy and counseling Connect with me through practo Follow my Facebook page "the Cloud Door" for mental health issues All the best Seek help for early recovery