hello, marriage comprises of many things. Understanding your partner as a whole, her needs, wants, expectations, concerns etc., adjustment and compatibility. You may have told her about past to keep loyalty or openness in relationship but it goes against her values. But relationship can be improved and worked upon. Visit psychologist or counselor to work on communication, understanding and bridging the gap.

Blaming is considered to be very unhealthy communication style that often leads to fighting unfairly and bringing in past into current arguments.. What you should do # speak up and share your perspective #  ask your partner to point out issue gently # stop and remember that blame is not really about you .Blame is discharge of their own pain. # getting your partner to focus on solution instead of blaming is a better strategy.

sometimes people make this mistake of being an open book infront of their partner without understanding their partners temperament.so for you maybe  your past is a closed chapter but for her it's new learning about her husband which is not acceptable to her. The more you will explain the worse it will get.you can talk about it and explain it to her once and how important she (your wife) is for you.let her know how much you love her but do not explain yourself everytime she instigates. Let her grow in her life by encouraging her in things she is good. Your point 2 is where you have to check yourself if watching porn is your habit which is disturbing your marital life or it's just in her mind.

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Hello there I can understand what you might be going through. It might be hard for you to always answer her questions and put to situations where you feel guilty. But you also have to look at situations from her side. Don't worry, both of you consult a good therapist or a psychologist as soon as possible. You can also contact me for couples counselling and I will try to help you out in this. Let's discuss both of your issues in detail so that you can reach towards your solutions. Take care. Stay safe and strong. Everything will be alright. You got this!

Hi... You both require marital counselling. Marriage is an important decision in our life and different people may have different expectations from it. Also, sometimes when we are faced with a reality that is beyond our bare minimum expectation, one may respond with a complete dejection and rejection of the whole situation. You both need to be brought to a common standpoint from where you both can start your relationship afresh or choose otherwise.