Mutual concern of breaking relationship might need confidence to deal with emotions, cognition, behavior. You need to be prepared for it and also you need to know his state of mind. Understanding his concerns and views and also yours might play a major role in your decision. Further help contact me on online through practo

I think it’s necessary to take professional help if you both are confused. Some counselor can guide you better. I am an online counselor and an internationally certified NLP practitioner. You can connect with me if required. Do visit my Facebook page to know my work. Happy to help !

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I understand your predicament and appreciate your honesty and willingness to take responsibility for resolving this crisis. Most often we like to cling on to the status quo because uncertainty, struggle and change are inherently challenging for us. It is more physiological than psychological as you would realize when you try to get to the root of it. That being said, having done all that you could to commit to a relationship, you have given your all to it. Your partner has expressed his stand with regard to his willingness to commit to a future with you. Respecting his decision, take baby steps in trusting yourself, your instincts, in moving forward. Treat yourself as you would treat your child or your best friend in a situation as this. Take one step at a time. Give yourself the time and space to gently process the current situation. Listen to your thoughts and be a silent witness to all those emotions that rise up, linger and ebb away. In the meantime, eat healthy, please do allot time for daily exercise. As you allow yourself to heal, you will slowly get the clarity to take the baby steps forward. You can do this. You got this. Way to go. Take care.

Hello dear thanks for approaching for help. I can understand what you must be going through it must be very painful and heartbreaking for you. From where I can see he may have commitment issues as you said everything was fine till your parents got involved to decide about your future. I suggest both of you to take pre marital counseling , if he is not ready i suggest you to take a session for yourself to have a clarity. You can take my appointment through this app for individual session. Take care.

You can seek pre-marital counseling. It will help you identify your thoughts and goals from the relationship. While in counseling the therapist may also invite him to know his perspective. It is better to clarify rather than assuming the worst. Please talk to a therapist