A simple example will help you to understand your condition:
Imagine you hurt your finger while cutting fruit. It's just minor cut with bleeding and a bandage helped you manage it. You feel mild pain and can perform rest chores easily. Suddenly your mother came and she your and started shouting that how major cut you suffered, you have to take painkillers, go for proper bandage and take injection to prevent infection. Also you have to take rest from all activities.
The sensitivity of pain before mother's appearance and after her appearance. Will answer your question.
Next Steps
took proper treatment for anxiety symptoms otherwise it may become worse, go for professional help