Hello sir. I can understand the distress you are through. You must understand that OCD is a psychiatric problem and needs to be treated by an expert. The management would consist of medications and therapies. Most importantly, it is completely curable. However, a detailed knowledge about the symptoms and their nature is needed.
Next Steps
I would strongly suggest you to consult with a psychiatrist. For more specific suggestions on the management, you can also consult with me directly here on practo.
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Don't worry. It is treatable.