Youâre carrying heavy mental fatigue from constant overthinking and isolation â that persistent rumination drains joy and makes it hard to feel safe enough to connect. This isnât a personal failure; itâs a pattern your mind has learned to cope, and it can be changed with gentle, consistent steps.
Next Steps
Book a short assessment with a counsellor or psychologist (even 4â6 sessions can teach tools to interrupt overthinking). Start small daily habits that protect your mental energy: fixed sleep, 20â30 minutes of movement, and a 5-minute morning grounding. Create a safety / connection plan: one person you can message or call when thoughts feel too loud (could be a helpline, peer support group, or a trusted acquaintance). If thoughts are overwhelming or you feel hopeless, contact a local helpline or mental health service immediately
Health Tips
âDownloadâ your mind: before bed and before work, write 10 minutes of everything on your mind â this reduces mental rehearsal. Set a daily âworry windowâ: 15 minutes at a fixed time to think through problems; outside that window, gently remind yourself to defer worries. Micro-pleasures: schedule 2 tiny enjoyable acts a day (tea in sunlight, 5-minute walk, favourite song) â they rebuild resilience slowly. Use distraction with structure: when rumination starts, switch to a focused 20â30 minute task (Pomodoro) â the brain resets with predictable effort. Practice brief grounding: 3 slow belly breaths, then name 3 visible objects and one thing you can hear â repeat as needed. Reach for human contact: a weekly low-stakes activity (class, volunteer shift, hobby group, or online support forum) helps retrain connection without pressure. Be kind to yourself: when you notice self-blame (âI should be happyâ), reply with: âIâm doing the best I can right now.â