Hello Friend, Good that you are seeking a help here. As you are doings a IT, I can understand your concerns. You sitting posture, work/life balance issues, work pressure etc can be a reason for such pains.
You need to adopt certain stress management plans that you can follow practically like, few lifestyle routines change, self therapies or excersise, dietary changes etc. As I do come from IT background, can guide you on the suitable non medicine solution plan that you can follow in your daily lifestyle to overcome this problems.
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Feel free to reach out to me directly or online for further evaluation evaluation of your symptoms and conditions to isolate the root cause and then recommend suitable solution. Be positive. You will be alright soon.