Both of them require counselling as this will help them to open up better and understand each others point of view. This will give clarity to each other than blaming.An online counselling or face to face session is needed.

Hello thanks your approach to us, I appreciate your concern to your friend. There could be some relationship issues or communication problem/ expectations among they both. It is suggested that they both should look for marital counseling. 2. Conveying you anything may not work out, because you may not sure how they will communicate and what could be the problem in them. 3. Let your friend relax and try to spend time with his partner and can have open communication with her.

I suggest your friend and his wife to seek a Marriage Counselling to have a better clarity and understanding about themselves.. They can reach me by using the link given below :- https://prac.to/hema-sampath-psychologist-dir

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They need counselling. As their seem to be negative emotions playing stronger then positive emotions. We will have to understand the parents / wife and husband relations , earlier life etc . This note is not enough to guide or conclude things.

Both needs counselling.. Need to talk to both to assess real scenarios.. Both has to be flexible as per each others needs. You cannot clapp with one hand.. Marriage is two way communication.. Talk to me for personal sessions. Good luck.