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Admit that you are angry, to yourself and/or to someone else.
Believe you can control your anger. Tell yourself that you can!
Calm down. Control your emotions. Take some time for yourself, breath deeply, count to ten, cry...do whatever works for you.
Decide how to solve the problem. This step only works once you are calm. Figure out what you need, and what's fair.
Express yourself assertively. Ask for what you need. Speak calmly, without yelling, and people will listen to you"(sources)
Next Steps
anger management
Health Tips
"Techniques include:
Deep, slow breathing: Focus on each breath as it moves in and out, and try to spend more time exhaling than inhaling.
Easing physical tension: Try tensing each part of the body for a count of 10, then releasing it.
Mindfulness: Meditation is one example of a mindfulness technique, and these can help shift the mind away from anger during triggering situations, especially after consistent practice.
Exercise: Physical activity is a great way to use up excess adrenalin. A brisk run or walk or combat sports, such as boxing or martial arts, can be useful outlets for aggressive or confrontational feelings.
Find alternative channels for anger: It can help to express anger in a way that limits harm to others, such as tearing newspaper, crushing ice cubes over a sink, or punching or screaming into a pillow.
Create distractions: Distraction techniques, such as dancing to energetic music, taking a relaxing shower, or building, fixing, writing, or drawing, can provide distance from the issue."(sources)