It's very common for married couples to face issues. It's just because two different people come together and share a life. Marital counselling is advised from time to time to have a healthy relationship. You might also want to conduct some couple psychometric tests to identify and alter behavioural patterns.
Next Steps
Feel free to contact me for a counselling session. Meanwhile try to have a nice dinner with your partner where no issues are brought up or do something fun both of you enjoy