It sounds like you’re going through a difficult and emotionally complicated phase right now, especially with the uncertainty around your relationship.
Since this has been affecting you for more than 15 days, I’d first like to understand what you have been experiencing emotionally, what thoughts keep coming up, and how this situation is affecting your sleep, daily functioning, and overall wellbeing.
You don’t have to figure out what is wrong with you on your own. Sometimes, when we are emotionally overwhelmed or caught in uncertainty, the mind can become stuck in repetitive thoughts and difficult emotions.
If you’re comfortable, tell me a little more about what has been happening and what feels most difficult for you right now.
Next Steps
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Health Tips
One small thing you can try for now: whenever you notice your mind going into repeated “what if…?”, “what should I do?”, or replaying the situation again and again, pause and bring yourself back to what is actually happening right now, rather than trying to solve the entire situation at once.
Take a few slow breaths, notice your surroundings, and tell yourself:
“I don't have to figure everything out right now. I only need to handle what is in front of me today.”
When we are emotionally overwhelmed, the mind often wants immediate certainty. Giving yourself permission to not have all the answers can reduce some of that pressure.