Based on the symptoms you have described, your wife is most likely experiencing functional constipation with associated anal irritation or a small anal fissure, which is why passing stool has become painful. This commonly happens due to irregular meal timing, dehydration, spicy foods, low fiber intake, and straining, and it is a very frequent and treatable condition.
Constipation that worsens with spicy food or disruption of routine is usually related to hard or dry stools, which stretch the anal opening and cause pain, burning, or irritation while passing stool. Once pain starts, the body tends to avoid proper bowel movement, which further worsens constipation and creates a cycle. This does not indicate any serious disease in most cases.
Next Steps
Immediate relief measures include increasing water intake (at least 2.5–3 liters per day), avoiding spicy and very oily foods for a few days, and ensuring regular meal timings. Taking Isabgol (psyllium husk) 1–2 teaspoons at night with warm water or milk helps soften stools and makes passage painless. If pain is significant at the anal opening, applying a local anesthetic plus healing ointment (such as lignocaine-based cream) before and after bowel movement can give relief and allow healing.
Dietary recommendations include increasing fiber-rich foods like vegetables, fruits (papaya, pear, apple), whole grains, oats, and curd. Warm fluids in the morning, especially warm water, can help stimulate bowel movement. Prolonged sitting on the toilet and straining should be avoided.
Health Tips
If constipation or pain persists beyond a few days, or if there is bleeding, severe pain, or worsening symptoms, she should be examined by a doctor to rule out fissure or piles and start appropriate treatment. With early care and routine correction, this condition usually resolves completely.
Good luck! And do contact in case of any doubt.