Based on the behavior you described, it does exhibit characteristics commonly associated with Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder (OCD). Specifically, the repetitive and ritualistic nature of your handwashing routine, coupled with the intense discomfort or anxiety you experience when not performing the ritual, aligns with typical OCD symptoms.
However, it's essential to consider the impact this behavior has on your daily life and functioning. If your handwashing routine significantly interferes with your ability to engage in other activities, causes distress, or consumes a considerable amount of time, it may warrant further evaluation and treatment.
While some individuals may view such habits as a unique hygiene practice, it's crucial to recognize when behaviors cross the line from being typical to potentially indicative of a mental health condition. In your case, the development of dry skin and interpersonal conflicts with your parents suggest that your handwashing routine may be causing distress and impairment.
Next Steps
I would recommend that you can book a session with me for a seeking a comprehensive assessment. I can provide a thorough evaluation and discuss treatment options tailored to your specific needs. Cognitive-behavioral therapy (CBT), particularly exposure and response prevention (ERP), is often recommended as a highly effective treatment for OCD.