Whole tongue hypertropy fissures.

I m pregnant 4.5 months ..Since 1 may my whole tounge is painful folliate pappila is enlaged both side but it is of pink colour only not painful right side there is yellowish and reddish type after pappila. Right side last circuvallate papilla is also enlarge but not painful ..anterior tongue right side is hypertropy left side is also affected but less .anterior 1/3rd is having fissures in tongue..i have shown to oral surgeon and one ENT they are saying its anxiety plus acid reflux and hormonal ..but m in pain in right side neck ..what should i do m frustated..no one prescribed me any medicine ..tried each and every home remedy nothing is working ..plz help me what should i do ..is there any safe antibiotic which can help i dont have any sore throat .