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Taking revenge of someone
Couple days ago someone told me that a (kinda friend) I was walking with once , has told someone that I am " sick " and " don't be her friend " because I told them about my suicide plans and what happened to me . The problem here is , that girl also had similar issues and I thought she understood. But after some time , she stopped talking to me and she changed . I thought something wrong was going on in her life . Now that I know she said something like that , I can't stop thinking of hurting her in any possible way . I just want to hurt her I hate her so Much I want to make her regret her life . I want her to be as hurt as I am , and even worse . But I don't want to do that , yet I do . What can i do to stop ?
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What do you want to gain out of hurting her? A revenge for your damaged reputation? If we think about it, your reputation goes for a real damage when you ‘do’ wrong things. Not when a gossip goes out about you. So, divert your attention from the gossip and hurting her to doing right things for yourself and for others. Convert yourself from one who is people-focused to one who is objective-focused!
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Divert attention. Seek Counselling if help needed with the same!
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Revenge won’t undo your perceived damage!
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