SEXUALLY TRANSMITTED DISEASE. Save us!

I had intercourse with aged and un known woman though I used condem unfortunately condom torn and I noticed blood in my and her personal parts and had injury in penis and she also had bleeding .after a dayI had a mild fever continous for a week and tingling sensation in my right arm and started declining in my physical activity this continous for six months and I have done almost all std screening including HIV.But my problems were increasing started with mild muscle pain in the arms, lower back pain and pain while moving my arms ,shoulder joint and neck pain,after that I had a severe palpitation during sleep and bowel disturbances and pain in upper abdomen. progressed and fingers and and arms goes numb while sleeping severe sudden headaches .I have visited hospital many times and done many tests after counselling by docs got married nd my wife is also started having same symptoms which Initialy i had. Now im having severe pain in chest with all above problems pls guide and save us