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Hi Iam 29 years of age from Hyd n married 3 years back I Alwz have feeling to see my wife having sex with others I enjoy more then That thinking of it ( bcz she was in relationship with other men before marriage) that thought has increased my feeling like this can I get out of it
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Ms. Vidhi Shah Prabhu Bangalore | Clinical Psychologist
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Hi, getting rid of this feeling is entirely on you whether you will take a disliking towards this fetish or not. Your thought seems to be stemming more out of fantasy rather than liberal view. Have you discussed this with your wife? If not, then why so? Is it because you think she doesn't share the same fantasy or that she would be offended? The only way you can stop these thoughts is when you grow out of such a fantasy and understand that your wife's relationships were in the past and you are her present. You need to appreciate the relationship you have with her and be happy that you have a partner with whom you can share a loving and caring relationship based out of security and trust. You are 29years old, you can have fantasies but you also need to draw a line between reality and obsession. If this still continues please visit a counselor near you who you can share your thoughts with and get constructive suggestions.
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