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Hi doctor,
My husband age 30 working in IT. He is good with respect to work.
But he never speaks with any1 of our family member including me. He only speaks about debt and money managing with me. No casual talks.
He either sits with laptop or sleeps with phone.same with my 2 year old kid too. He always feels irritated with my kids naughty activities.
Not sure whether it is psycological issue.
I have spoken a lot with him, but he never changed.
It disturbs me a lot, because I am like a maid. I too work in IT and earn almost equal to him. How to handle.
He never said i am hungry too. If i put in plate he ll have. If i put 1cup rice he ll finish that and walk, if i put 10cup also he ll eat and move with no questions.
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There are options that you can consider for this. You can suggest to your husband to seek psychotherapy. In therapy, he may learn to deal with his emotions better and communicate his concerns. If his concerns are a result of a condition or a disorder, the same can be figured out in the process. If it isn't feasible at the moment, you can consider taking couple counselling sessions to resolve the impact of his behaviours on your relationship. Another alternative is to take therapy sessions for yourself to help yourself with the experience of stress and other difficulties as a result of your relationship with your husband. Hopefully something will workout along the way.
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Dr. Rayees Ahmad Wani
Neuropsychiatrist
12 yrs exp
Srinagar
Hello,
Motivate him and go for counselling to clinical psychologist.
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Dr. Shabir Ahmad Dar
Psychiatrist
10 yrs exp
Srinagar
He needs to consult with a clinical psychologist
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