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Why it's difficult to leave relationship.even if it's full of so many red flags.why it's difficult to leave
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It's difficult to leave a relationship because being with someone seems rewarding when they do something nice.
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Hi, There are many reasons why people stay in abusive relationships.Financial dependency,kids,social stigma,etc.Before thinking of ending a relationship,you need to take action regarding these factors.
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It's difficult to leave a relationship when a person depends so much for his and his child's needs on another person even if it's full of so many red flags in that relationship. I think you need counseling sessions to deal with it so for that you should book an online appointment with me.
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Without theorising the answer to your question too much, I would mention here the three ego states that the theory of Transactional Analysis deals with. They are the 'Parent', 'Adult' and 'Child' ego states. Even Sigmund Freud, considered to be the father of modern psychology, has explained something similar when he spoke about Id, Ego and Superego. The 'child' within our mind seeks unlimited pleasure, satisfaction, enjoyment, approval, appreciation, care etc. mostly without considering the risks involved in the process of the fulfillment of such needs. The 'parent' within will keep cautioning on the risks, but in the cases of feelings like in romantic relationships, such cautions from within do not get accepted and considered by the 'child' which will internalise the relationship like an addiction. It is the 'adult' within us which can balance between the child's urge to cling despite the caution from the parent. The adult is the maturity within our mind. Psychological counselling and psychotherapy can strengthen the 'adult' within and make a person see reasons and become sensible. So, if you are unable to handle your situation (the urge to leave which probably is because of the cautions from the parent within), please consult a psychologist and find ways to strengthen your 'adult' and overcome your urge to cling on, which may even be leading you to a situation of self-harm.
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As emotions and time is invested in it.and failure is difficult to deal with.because of fear of restart and loanilineess
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Ms. Hema Sampath
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18 yrs exp
Bangalore
It means that some bond has happened in the initial stage and that's is over weighing the current conditions..
I suggest both of you to visit a Marriage Counselor /Relationship Cosch/Therapist to get a clarity..
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Ms. Simran Sharma
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1 yrs exp
Kolkata
Leaving a relationship, even with warning signs, can be tough. It's often linked to emotions and how we connect with others. Therapy provides a safe space to understand your feelings and make choices that are good for you. If you feel ready, you can reach out to me through my company Mind Sculpt for support could help.
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Ms. Shwetnil Varma
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2 yrs exp
Greater Noida
It might be because your in a emotional manipulative relationship or you are sensitive and emotional person but you can come out of it if you really feel relationship is full of red flags
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