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Hello Sir/Ma'am,
Myself Sangeeta Das, working as an Assistant Professor. I am in a relation since past 10 years. It so happened that after the initial starting of our relation everything looked fine to me. But suddenly after two years I got to know about my partner cheating on me and he is looking for someone else in the same college. However, the said girl refuse to his proposal. When I got to know about this I tried breaking up with him but threatened me of commiting suicide and somehow also Because I love him alot I stayed with him in relation. We had frequent fights. Though I am staying with him I donot trust him at all but he claims to love me and accept his mistake. This all happened in the year 2013. We are still together but I donot trust him at all.
This is one part of the story.
Second, I always feel whenever he is with his brother he tries to ignore me. Say for instance, no text from him whenever he is with his brother etc. could u plz help what shall I do continue relation
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You need to be more practical and strategic in your approach. You need to improve your perception and decision making skills.
It can be well corrected with counseling sessions effectively.
Need pre marital counseling sessions.
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Is it that you have lost trust in him once you cannot trust him again.for maintaining a relationship for 10 years you must have got immense patience and love for your partner so even if I tell you to distant yourself you would not be able up or it will be extremely tough so for time being take a decent break without breaking up for rejuvenating yourself.start taking care of your health and prioritize your peace.
If you are living in with him amicably move out. For your query for his changed behavior when he is with his brother maybe you are negatively thinking (not claiming you are but sometimes when we are too worked up with situation it gets difficult to see things positively) maybe he meets him less as compared to you so he wants to be with him fully ,maybe you are not comfortable in his brother's company so he tries to keep it simple and aloof.
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take out some time for yourself,work for your mental peace.
start Journaling,write everything that comes to your mind.
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Hi. Get married. Ask him for marriage. If he denies, you come out of this relationship
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CBT
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Mr. Gunjan Maithil
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13 yrs exp
Bangalore
Hi.... Please consult a Psychologist and start taking Counselling Sessions.
You require individual counselling to help you understand what you exactly want and how to go about it. You are certainly in a state of dilemma and unsure about your choices.
Talking to a Therapist/Psychologist in a comfortable and neutral setting will provide you a safe place not only to vent out your pent-up issues but also to gather courage and take decision. It will help you reach your own decision and course of action.
Remember, every relationship is unique and there cannot be a standard response for all such situations.
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Start taking Counselling Sessions from a Psychologist on Weekly Basis
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