Really need suggestions for my life.

I love a man who is 7 yrs elder den me. He is frm Bihar & I'm Sikh. Now as our relation is getting worst day by day. We fight alot & after every fight he say its better 2 leave this relation/ we can't live together. He gets offended by me on small-2 things. He behave very rude, says anything whatever come in his mind. & at last he says "u are d reason for my rude behaviour, my anger. He will do anything to hurt me back if he got hurt by me. He hit himself, he broke things, he will take revenge. And after fight if I will doing things to get back to normal but he never come back to normal. And after few days when his anger ends up & he call me back den we get back to normal. & he always come 2 the point dat I never take initiative to do things normal, he always come back to me. If while fighting he is crossing his limits and I protect myself by giving answer of his questions den he says I'm not respecting him. I don't knw whether we should see our future together or not.I Loves him alot.