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My close friend got married 14 years back and his wife is a very very nice women. he married her because inner and outer beauty. She is very very passionate to music.
Recently 6 months back in a marriage function she met one gutar player and from then onwards she was in touch with him in whatsapp and treating him as a god father. Three months back she went to his home for 4 days with her husbands permission for few song recording and requested music opportunities in movies. Unfortunately he convinced her to have sex with him and she had sex with him 2 times.
Later she was caught after 10 days and when questioned by her husband she said she is in love with him. After few days she accepted her mistake and prayed her husband to apolozize. Husband also apolozized her and mistake and they were into normal life.
After 3 months husband was into depression thinking about his wife cheating and suffering a lot with psychological problem. Kindly suggest...
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Consult a clinical psychologist or psychiatrist for evaluation and treatment. You have described only precipitating factor. Full history and mental status examination is required for further advise.
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Mr. Gunjan Maithil
Psychologist
13 yrs exp
Bangalore
Hi... Forgiveness and acceptance must come from within and not out of some obligation/compulsion.
Adultery is not a crime any more but it is still a valid ground for divorce (not suggesting one). This is because we all have rights to our bodies even if we are married. But in a marriage we are under oath to be loyal to our spouse and if that is breached, it becomes a valid ground for divorce.
In this case, husband is facing approach-avoidance conflict. He does not want to leave his wife because he loves her, but also unable to deal with the breach of trust (adultery).
Husband requires Counselling to understand his thoughts and emotions better and come up with a resolution that his heart and mind both approve of.
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Start taking Counselling Sessions from a Psychologist
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My Website: https://gunjanmaithil.wixsite.com/therapy
Please use the number mentioned on my website to book an online session with me.
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Ms. Hema Sampath
Psychologist
18 yrs exp
Bangalore
Yes, it is difficult to accept and forgive..
Yet, it is not impossible..
Probably, he can seek a professional support who can give some clarity and guidance to accept and move on in the marriage..
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For a detailed discussion and understanding he can contact me by using the link given below :-
https://prac.to/hema-sampath-psychologist-dir
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