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Not able to feel happiness and pleasure
Age 30
Married
Non smoker and non alcoholic
In past before 2015 i have no issue that time i was virgin and did masterbate and that time i feel pleasure and happiness in like gaming reading etc.
After breakup slowly i went down i depression. Somehow i controlled myself and i noticed that i cant able to feel happiness anymore and i masterbate i cant feel pleasure. I thought that may be i bored with masterbate after marriage all the things will go right.
But even after marriage i am not able to feel any kind of pleasure in sex. All the things ok like eraction , ejaculation and timing. But no pleasure. There is drive to do sex but no pleasure at all. I did all the test like prolactin or testosterone and semen analysis. All are good.
But i dont know how to solve it i am so frustrated. Please help. Or is there any issue with partner who cant satisfy me.
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It seems to be subdued psychological issues which might be causing the problem.
It needs to be resolved with counseling sessions and homeopathic medicine if required.
Sex without pleasure - can be a serious concern as far as married life is concerned.
It needs to addressed asap otherwise it may get complicated.
You need an expert Psychologist who is a good homeopathic physician.
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non sexual interests to select and pursue which are constructive for you
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Hi, Consult a psychologist for psychological assessment.
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Your concern is you don't feel happy for quite a long time. It's important to feel happy from the inside. May be something is bothering you in your life which you don't really know. I would suggest you do regular exercises, enjoy something which you are good at, get enough sleep & talk about your feelings with your wife. Communication is something that is very important in marriage. Even after all this, if you still feel unhappy, then you should consult a psychologist who will then help you get back on track.
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consult online for further discussion.
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eat healthy diet, improve sleep habits, share your thoughts with your wife
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It is normal to feel this as a symptom of depression, taking some therapy sessions to understand underlying cause of unhappiness can help you .
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consult a psychologist
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Meet a psychologist to understand the issue, are there any deeper issues that are effecting your present.
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Mr. Gunjan Maithil
Psychologist
13 yrs exp
Bangalore
Hi... You need to first understand the cause of your condition. Based on what you have shared above I feel there is something that you have repressed during this time (2015 around) which has gradually caused you to fall into depression. Sometimes it can be very latent and no typical signs and symptoms of depression are overtly visible. Gradually you have managed to overcome the setback at a superficial level, but the latent effects of it has caused you these presenting issues — loss of happiness in previously enjoyable activities, etc. Also, since you have mentioned your spouse so it is always good to seek couple therapy/marital counselling if you are facing any issues in your personal or sexual life.
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Consult a Psychologist or a Sexologist.
Psychosexual Guidance and Counselling is required.
Individual Therapy or Couple Therapy/Marital Counselling both will work well.
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Ms. Smriti
Counselling Psychologist
19 yrs exp
Bangalore
Connect with sexologist and psychologist to resolve this
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consult
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counseling
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